The Perfect Side
At least, you realize an important thing:
The limit of selflessness.
You can't stand the others' selfishness
Which makes you doubt your own selflessness
Your own personality
It is not worth it.
Everyone has his selfishness in his own ways
So maybe don't solely put out your perfect one side
Neither leave out the other side of your selfishness
It's your own legitimate desire
Your own wish and ambitions
Admit that they are normal existence;
And that they exist
for a legit and well-deserved reason
Learn to live with both sides
Apply both to your life
Change the mode if needed.
Be flexible
Be confident